Mainly because it's really not a necessity to have everyone like you, and also because it's kind of a waste of time⌛️ to focus your attention on impressing other people.
Your main focus should be on impressing and loving yourself🙆🏻♀️🙆🏻♂️. Because the truth is that if you don't love or respect yourself, no amount of respect or love from others is going to make you truly happy.
You could be doing things that others find lame, boring, and unimportant. But if that something gives your life, excitement, and passion... then why does it matter what others think? They are not you and you are not them🙊.
Or you could be doing things that other people find cool, exciting... things that other people dream of doing. However, if your heart isn't in it, what does any of it matter⁉️
In life, we will be met with those who love us, hate us, or are simply indifferent. And that is absolutely okay!
Actually, it is absolutely expected.
But also... who determined that others' opinions matter more than yours?
Why is their input more valuable than yours? Especially since you're the one living your life and having to deal with what you choose to do/not do.
HOW TO STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
👉🏻 Write down a list of character traits that you admire in yourself (and don't tell me there is nothing). You do this because the most important thing is that YOU like YOURSELF. You are the one who has to live in your own body and with your own mind FOREVER. Does this scare you? Good😂 GET TO WORK🤓
You need to focus on this list. This is who you are. GET THAT IN YOUR HEAD.
I also recommend that you write out a list of traits you would like to acquire. Imagine yourself as BEING that person. In fact, tell yourself that you ALREADY ARE that person. You will attract that positive energy into your life. Remember: energy flows where the thought goes.
👉🏻Realize that you are given a mission in this world. I don't care if you don't believe in this stuff. The point is that you play a certain role. Whether you like it or not. You're doing something every day- or not doing something/certain things every day-that define who and what and how you are. It doesn't matter if Joe Shmo doesn't approve or think you're "cool"🙄.Not your problem😤
Focus on your mission and your purpose as opposed to others' opinions (because like they don't matter at the end of the day)- WHO CARES ABOUT JOE SHMO?!
👉🏻Do what you LOVE💙, what you are PASSIONATE about, what gets you in your FLOW (you know, when you're having so much fun doing what you're doing that you don't realize the time is passing by).
Remember: People who are truly happy simply care less about what others think.
Because how could they not?
They're enjoying themselves, they're EXCITED about what they're doing, they're PUMPED!!!
Be THAT person.
While Joe Shmo is in the corner finding the next person to judge... and is unhappy about everything in his life because if he were happy then he wouldn't care to be judging others and wouldn't have the time anyway because he would be in his own flow.
Get it?
Now go do it👊🏼
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