Thursday, December 26, 2019

The Time Is Here And Now | New Year 2020

I’m done with the throwbacks. Because the truth is that anything I miss, I'm creating in my world. I don’t want to live a life of nostalgia and reminiscing on “the good times.” 

Everything good is here. 
Life is good. 

Let’s stop having boring dull lives with happiness and excitement interspersed throughout it, and instead have the happy and exciting times being the main theme! 
The challenges, hardships, struggles and all else are momentary. 
The good, the happy, the joy, the moments of sincere gratitude are the constant. 

Especially now with the holidays and new year, let’s begin a NEW new cycle. Our dreams and aspirations are on the front line. Everything else is secondary. 

To start on this journey (when is a better time than now? There isn’t) and to find out more, check out BetterMe Mission Site for resources and downloads to help you get on your way! 



2020 Is Going To Be Your Year

WRITE THIS DOWN NOW!!!

πŸ¦‹what are your 3 top goals for this coming year?

πŸ¦‹What are 3 lessons you learned this year that you are not going to repeat?

πŸ¦‹what 3 things are you choosing to let go of and not carry into this new year?

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Caption credit: @betterme.mission 

Saturday, December 21, 2019

GUIDE: Exactly How To Generate Positive Vibes and Thoughts (Even When The Going Gets Rough)

OKAY PEOPLE!!

Everything good is coming our way! 
Gosh, what am I saying?πŸ€”
Everything good is already HERE!πŸ€™

That is, if you allow it to be. It depends entirely on you. 

I know you're probably thinking, "How so, Dev?"πŸ‘€

Well, if your thoughts and beliefs create your reality... and since you control your thoughts and beliefs... this means that you have the power to generate whatever you want.

The KEYπŸ— is to learn, therefore, how to control your thoughts and change your beliefs.

And you must. It's going to take time and some effort, but with persistent practice, you WILL get there. Heck, I'm still practicing (getting better every day☝🏻) and I've been doing this for a while.

Because guess what. 

If we are focusing on the negative, we will only attract more negative into our lives. 
Likewise, if we attract positive, then we will attract positive into our lives.

Like attracts like. 

Make sense? By the way, if you want to learn more, check out my downloadables on this exact topic! You can find them all here! And I'm adding more and more all the time! 

So here are my top pointers on how to generate positive vibes even when the going gets rough (because life requires the going gets rough and we are supposed to learn how to grow from these challenges). 

  1. Do a meditation- Sometimes we get so caught up in the situation at hand, the feelings generated from an experience, past issues and the emotions attached to them, starting to come up... we just need to step back and realign ourselves with our mission and goals. Instead of resisting the thoughts, feelings, and reality at hand... allow them to flow through you.
    • The best way to allow them to flow through you is to meditate. Stop what you're doing, close your eyes, take a couple of deep breaths, and just BREATHE. Set a timer for 3-5 minutes and just allow yourself to relax. Focus on your breath and allow all negativity to show up as they desire, acknowledge them, and let them go. Don't try to fight them, just accept them as thoughts. 
  2. Observe your thoughts- as I wrote above. When you simply step back and observe your thoughts and feelings, you cease owning them. We berate ourselves for thinking a certain way or acting our emotions that we try to suppress... but we can also choose to stop owning them and taking them personally. Just we think negative thoughts, it doesn't mean we are negative. We are human. Observe and let go. 
  3. Listen to something positive- whether it be a song, a speaker, a video on something silly and funny. 
    • When you focus your attention on those things, you align your energy with that energy. 
    • Loosen up. Allow yourself to align with the energy you truly desire to live by. 
  4. Journal- When you write down exactly how you're feeling and why you're feeling that way, you gain a LOT of clarity. 
    • Clarity allows for understanding, which allows for an opening for something new to enter into our space (positivity pleaseπŸ™πŸ»). 
    • This also helps us to let go- to let off steam- which therefore allows us to feel more positive and accepting of something new.
  5. Get up and get out- if you've been sitting for too long, focusing on one thing to no or little avail and are building up frustration... then you need to get up physically (yes do it even if you're lazy and/or a have a deadline because this will give you more time and energy in the long run) and step out of your current scene. Step outside, go on a walk, go for a drive around your neighborhood). Then come back and start again.

Wednesday, December 18, 2019

3 Steps To GET RID of Negative Thoughts In SECONDS

Speaking of impeachment (all over the news), let’s apply it into our personal lives, people🀸🏼‍♂️ 

HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS IN SECONDS⤵️

When that negative thought enters your mind, give it a nice kick🦡🏻out the doorπŸšͺ
Question those things that you tell yourself. 
Where is the validity and integrity? 
Where did you get those ideas that you’re not good enough or strong enough or capable? 

🌈The world is offering you opportunities that you must allow into your life. If you’re thinking negative thoughts, you’re blocking the receiving of those positive things. 

So do thisπŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»

1️⃣ Every time a negative thought comes to you, take a deep breath in and blow out the thought. Literally. Blow it out. Doesn’t need to be forceful- you’re telling your mind that you’re not allowing the negative energy inside. 

2️⃣ Imagine yourself in your ideal, dream state. How you look, feel, who you’re with, your energy…

3️⃣ Tell yourself THAT is who I am because that is who I CHOOSE to be!


Let me know down below if you’ve put this into practiceπŸ’©